The False Beliefs That Blocked My Dream Relationship

When I met A Higher Love, I was excited and I had no doubt that we were meant to live happily ever after. ⁣ ⁣ The attraction was strong.⁣ The love deep.⁣ Definitely not your regular.⁣ ⁣ That experience is really satisfying because you kinda feel ‘done’ in this chapter of life where you wondered if your other half was actually out there. ⁣ ⁣ Mission accomplished: they’re out there. ⁣ ⁣ But then it became challenging because nothing went as it should and it just wasn’t easy.⁣ ⁣ I mean what about all these complicated circumstances, third-parties and trust issues? ⁣ ⁣ HA!? ⁣ ⁣ Well, I learned that nothing was as bad or hard as it seemed...

To the contrary, the process was relatively simple. ⁣ BUT it did take me an honest transformation. (!)

Which is why I founded LoveChamp and created my Life-Changing, Online Coaching community called Champions of Love. ⁣ ⁣ You can have a peak at what we're doing and sign-up here: https://www.lovechamp.nl/championsoflove⁣ ⁣

So, today I wanted to share with you a couple of the false beliefs I had that kept love away from me, initially.⁣ ⁣ These beliefs are really the killers of love:⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ''𝗪𝐞'𝐫𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦 in our relationship/connection''⁣

Instead: I learned that I judged our 'obstacles' as way bigger than they were. I believed every thing they said or did. Misinterpreted it and put way more load to it, instead of reading in between the lines. ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ''𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨 𝐚𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧''⁣

Instead: I discovered I behold (positive) power over the relationship and by changing myself I changed us/them.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐈 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞⁣

Instead: their true will is to be with me, so if I speak to that part of them, they will be with me.⁣ ⁣ ⁣ 𝐂𝐢𝐫𝐜𝐮𝐦𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐦𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰, 𝐬𝐨 𝐰𝐞’𝐫𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐲 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰⁣

Instead: circumstances are here to show you that, with true love, circumstances don’t matter and are transcended⁣ ⁣ ⁣ 𝐅𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐞𝐱𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐭⁣

Instead: It does exist. True love is not supposed to be hard. It requires some growing up on the inside but then it is easy, passionate, romantic, sweet, dreamy and warm⁣ ⁣ ⁣ Let me know which of these do/did you believe and how is it hindering you? ⁣ ⁣

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