When I met A Higher Love, I was excited and I had no doubt that we were meant to live happily ever after. The attraction was strong. The love deep. Definitely not your regular. That experience is really satisfying because you kinda feel ‘done’ in this chapter of life where you wondered if your other half was actually out there. Mission accomplished: they’re out there. But then it became challenging because nothing went as it should and it just wasn’t easy. I mean what about all these complicated circumstances, third-parties and trust issues? HA!? Well, I learned that nothing was as bad or hard as it seemed...
To the contrary, the process was relatively simple. BUT it did take me an honest transformation. (!)
Which is why I founded LoveChamp and created my Life-Changing, Online Coaching community called Champions of Love. You can have a peak at what we're doing and sign-up here: https://www.lovechamp.nl/championsoflove
So, today I wanted to share with you a couple of the false beliefs I had that kept love away from me, initially. These beliefs are really the killers of love: ''𝗪𝐞'𝐫𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦 in our relationship/connection''
Instead: I learned that I judged our 'obstacles' as way bigger than they were. I believed every thing they said or did. Misinterpreted it and put way more load to it, instead of reading in between the lines. ''𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐦𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨 𝐚𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧''
Instead: I discovered I behold (positive) power over the relationship and by changing myself I changed us/them. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐈 𝐦𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞
Instead: their true will is to be with me, so if I speak to that part of them, they will be with me. 𝐂𝐢𝐫𝐜𝐮𝐦𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐦𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰, 𝐬𝐨 𝐰𝐞’𝐫𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐲 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰
Instead: circumstances are here to show you that, with true love, circumstances don’t matter and are transcended 𝐅𝐚𝐢𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐞𝐱𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐭
Instead: It does exist. True love is not supposed to be hard. It requires some growing up on the inside but then it is easy, passionate, romantic, sweet, dreamy and warm Let me know which of these do/did you believe and how is it hindering you?